Petrecerile de Craciun – A fi sau a nu fi!/ Christmas parties – To be or not to be!

Party-ul organizat de o companie cu ocazia Craciunului este de obicei o recompensa pentru anul ce se va incheia, dar si un imbold… Unele companii aleg petrecerile tematice, “avertizandu-si” angajatii cu privire la tinuta, altele nu. S-ar putea spune ca la petrecetile tematice e complicat, dar dimpotriva, cele la care se prefera liberul arbitru creeaza cele mai mari batai de cap (mai putin barbatilor, mai mult femeilor). Oamenii care afiseaza ceva care ii caracterizeaza, chiar daca stiu ca acest lucru ar putea starni reactii negative din partea colegilor, sunt de admirat pentru curajul lor. Deoarece nu se imbraca in “uniforma” si nici nu ii copiaza pe altii. In cazul barbatilor, nu spune nimeni ca un pulover cu reni ar fi cea mai potrivita alegere, dar o cravata haioasa este oricand binevenita si chiar s-a concluzionat (au facut studii englezii, bineinteles) ca un om cu o asemenea cravata se pune mai usor in valoare (unde este cazul… adica, o petrecere a companiei!), fiind clasat drept open minded si cu simtul umorului. Desigur, tipii axati pe black tie sau white tie, vor fi clasati ori drept foarte rasati, ori snobi, ceea ce nu este rau daca asa vor ei! In cazul femeilor, ei…, aici este marea problema. De obicei, majoritatea planuiesc sa vina in fusta scurta! Daca respectivei ii sta bine in fusta scurta, e ok. Nu trebuie evitate “consecintele”, dar nu este sfarsitul lumii daca un om este provocator macar odata pe an. In tot acest story al fustei scurte cel mai important este ca reprezentantele sexului frumos sa fie atente la atitudine, la culori, la ciorapi, incaltaminte, machiaj. Nimeni nu vrea sa auda comentarii de genul: “ce ciorapi urati avea” sau “ce sorcova era”, desi gura lumii e sloboda. Stilul scolaresc este cel mai de efect (fusta plisata cu camasa alba si cu mici accesorii de efect), la fel si stilul haios: camasa alba cu fusta rosie si atat, fara blanita alba si alte chestii ca in reclamele cu Mos Craciuni si Craciunite Aproape toata lumea sufera de sindromul “criticile de dupa”. Desi, dupa cum spunea Oscar Wilde: “E trist cand lumea te barfeste, dar cand nu te barfeste nimeni e de-a dreptul groaznic!”… Nu vreau sa parafrazez spunand ca de Craciun fetele bune iau cina in familie, fetele rele meg in club si curajosii merg la petrecerea companiei! In final, important este sa va simtiti bine in pielea voastra la petrecerea de Craciun a companiei, conform principiului fiecare om are parte in viata de 15 minute de glorie. . .Dar, de exemplu, ce poti sa faci in situatia in care un coleg bea si vorbeste mai mult decat ar trebui?!? Ii poti spune ca nu e la nunta Zamfirei (!) si il eviti, ca doar nu te-a angajat compania baby sitter la petrecere sau, daca ai nervii tari, simtul umorului si al… curiozitatii, il suporti! Nu uitati: nu vorbiti mai mult decat trebuie, nu beti peste masura, daca sunteti celibatar si doriti sa faceti curte cuiva faceti acest lucru discret si elegant (ca n-au intrat zilele in sac!), per total, nu va dati in stamba, deoarece, teoretic si umoristic vorbind, cineva este cu ochii pe voi! Este adevarat ca nu participati la un MBA, ci la o petrecere de Craciun, dar nu omiteti vreo clipa faptul ca modestia este cea mai buna fita, si ca pielea dumneavoastra este mai pretioasa chiar decat a…” companiei”!

The party organized by a company at Christmas is usually a reward for the year will end, but also an incentive… Some companies choose the party theme, “warning and” employees on the outfit, others not. You might say that the thematic spending is complicated, but on the contrary, those who prefer to create the biggest free agency headaches (less than men more than women). People who displays something that, that characterize him, even if they know this could spark negative reactions from colleagues, are commended for their courage. Because no dress in “uniform” and do not copy any others. For men, do not tell anyone that a little reindeer sweater that would be the best choice, but a tie is always welcome and very funny it was concluded (they did English studies course) that a man with such an easy place tie in the amount (if … I mean, a party of the company!), was classified as open minded, the guys focused on the black tie or white tie will be ranked as very rasati times, or snobbish, which is not so bad if they want! For women, they … here lies the problem. Usually, most are planning to come in short skirts! If he looks good in that skirt short, it’s ok. There must be avoided “consequences”, but not the end of the world if a man is challenging at least once a year. During this short skirt story of the most important is that the fair sex representatives to be diligent attitude, the colors, the socks, shoes and make-up. Nobody wants to hear comments like: “Why have ugly socks” or “what rigged out is” although word of mouth is free. The scholar style is effect (pleated skirt with white shirt and small accessories effect), as well as humorous style: white shirt and red skirt that, no white coat and stuff like in trouser legs with Santa and Christmas ads. Almost everyone suffers from the syndrome “after criticism.” Although, as Oscar Wilde said: “It’s sad when people you gossip, but when you do not gossip nobody’s downright awful! I do not want to paraphrase the saying that good girls Christmas family dinner, bad girls go in the club to a party’s brave! Finally, it is important to feel good in your skin at the company Christmas party, everyone gets the principle in life…But, for example, you can do in a situation where a colleague and drinking more than they would be talking!? I can not say that Zamfira wedding (!) And avoid it as you not only the company hired a baby sitter at the party or, if you have strong nerves, sense of humor … and curiosity, it supports! Remember: do not talk too much, drink excessively, if you’re single and you want to date someone doing this discreet and elegant (as they have entered today in the bag!), overall, do not give in calico, because, theoretically speaking, and humorous, someone is watching you! It is true that an MBA does not attend, but at a Christmas party, but do not miss any moment that modesty is the best vantage, and your skin is even more precious than … “company”!

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